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	<title>Comments on: Donor Children</title>
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		<title>By: FastLife</title>
		<link>http://www.haydnallbutt.com.au/2009/06/30/donor-children/comment-page-1/#comment-1522</link>
		<dc:creator>FastLife</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 23:45:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Nathan, thanks for the post.  I agree with you completely and think it is great that you will be looking into getting hold of the information that exists about you once you complete your degree.  I would love to hear how you go and what you find out.  I think it is great that Victoria has changed their laws to make the information more available.  I hate the way people always seek to hide information, no wonder there is always so much frustration and conflict in various fields.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Nathan, thanks for the post.  I agree with you completely and think it is great that you will be looking into getting hold of the information that exists about you once you complete your degree.  I would love to hear how you go and what you find out.  I think it is great that Victoria has changed their laws to make the information more available.  I hate the way people always seek to hide information, no wonder there is always so much frustration and conflict in various fields.</p>
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		<title>By: Nathan Hall</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nathan Hall</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 23:20:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi,

My parents sought assistance and recieved donated sperm through the Queensland Fertility Group. I was born in July 1978, and as such have abosolutely no rights whatsoever to find infomation regarding my biological origins etc.  I personally feel alittle lost with my identity, whilst my identity has been built through my experiences in life, I feel it would be better for me if I had an understanding of where i&#039;m from, and perhaps some basic info about my biological father such as his likes/dislikes, occupation, origin etc. For someone who hasn&#039;t lived with the experience of being the product of a donor I wouldn&#039;t expect them to understand the anguish, but I can assure you there is anguish and a part of yourself which is always missing. I believe this sense is hightened by the sense of injustice, that the information is, in most cases, available,  however donor children are not entitled to it. 

As you state yourself, the donor children are the only parties who had no choice in the consequences, however we are the ones who bear the burdens. I might suggest such an outcome is grossly unconscionable.  Moreover, I am strongly of the view that it is inequitable for a person to donate sperm and rely upon remaining anonomous on arguments such as its their right, or the privity of contract doctrine. I might add that I as a child of a donor was not party to any contract, therefore I should not be constrained by such. I believe I have an equitable right to the medical records pertaining to my birth, and upon completion of my Bachelor of Laws (LLB) that is exactly what I will be looking into.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi,</p>
<p>My parents sought assistance and recieved donated sperm through the Queensland Fertility Group. I was born in July 1978, and as such have abosolutely no rights whatsoever to find infomation regarding my biological origins etc.  I personally feel alittle lost with my identity, whilst my identity has been built through my experiences in life, I feel it would be better for me if I had an understanding of where i&#8217;m from, and perhaps some basic info about my biological father such as his likes/dislikes, occupation, origin etc. For someone who hasn&#8217;t lived with the experience of being the product of a donor I wouldn&#8217;t expect them to understand the anguish, but I can assure you there is anguish and a part of yourself which is always missing. I believe this sense is hightened by the sense of injustice, that the information is, in most cases, available,  however donor children are not entitled to it. </p>
<p>As you state yourself, the donor children are the only parties who had no choice in the consequences, however we are the ones who bear the burdens. I might suggest such an outcome is grossly unconscionable.  Moreover, I am strongly of the view that it is inequitable for a person to donate sperm and rely upon remaining anonomous on arguments such as its their right, or the privity of contract doctrine. I might add that I as a child of a donor was not party to any contract, therefore I should not be constrained by such. I believe I have an equitable right to the medical records pertaining to my birth, and upon completion of my Bachelor of Laws (LLB) that is exactly what I will be looking into.</p>
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		<title>By: FastLife</title>
		<link>http://www.haydnallbutt.com.au/2009/06/30/donor-children/comment-page-1/#comment-1253</link>
		<dc:creator>FastLife</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 05:25:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Chris, thanks for the post.  What are your thoughts on the children born to donor fathers, would you prefer to remain anonymous, do you think of them as your children?  I would be interested in other donors thoughts.  Also do you mean there are 5 women using your guys at the moment or 12,345 (ie twelve thousand three hundred and forty five).  I know I would like some photos of my kids, I am dying to know what they look like!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Chris, thanks for the post.  What are your thoughts on the children born to donor fathers, would you prefer to remain anonymous, do you think of them as your children?  I would be interested in other donors thoughts.  Also do you mean there are 5 women using your guys at the moment or 12,345 (ie twelve thousand three hundred and forty five).  I know I would like some photos of my kids, I am dying to know what they look like!</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
		<link>http://www.haydnallbutt.com.au/2009/06/30/donor-children/comment-page-1/#comment-612</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Aug 2009 12:16:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, I am also a Donor, I was at Epworth 10 years ago, I phoned after 5 years went by and the lady in charge of the IVF program at the time said that &quot;No one was interested in your sperm&quot; I was quite taken aback ... so I gave up and never woried about it. 
Then I answered my phone the other day to sign my review form and I asked the lady on the phone if anything had happenned a- and she made no hesitation to tell me that I had a daughter born in &#039;07, a pregnancy at the moment ... and 12345 women dealing with it at the moment.... 
Cheers!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, I am also a Donor, I was at Epworth 10 years ago, I phoned after 5 years went by and the lady in charge of the IVF program at the time said that &#8220;No one was interested in your sperm&#8221; I was quite taken aback &#8230; so I gave up and never woried about it.<br />
Then I answered my phone the other day to sign my review form and I asked the lady on the phone if anything had happenned a- and she made no hesitation to tell me that I had a daughter born in &#8216;07, a pregnancy at the moment &#8230; and 12345 women dealing with it at the moment&#8230;.<br />
Cheers!!</p>
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